Selena Gomez on her lonely journey: “I had to lose a lot of people”
Selena Gomez started her personal life, in the “The business of fashion” cover story; the spiritual health goal is one of her most thorough things. The interview was done through facial timing, not personally, but Gomez did not stop the frank conversation.
In the early years of her career, her mother survived:
“I’ve been doing it since 7. To be truthful, I don’t think I’m any different. It was a good exercise, but I wanted to give it to my mom because she knew for sure that for some reason it might have happened to me. She always tells me that I should have fun, if it doesn’t have fun, or if I don’t learn something, or if I don’t grow up as a person, she wants to stand out from me. She said, “the whole industry will tell you that you are perfect, you are great, and I want to tell you that you are no better or bigger than anyone else.” You’re your man, and you’re lucky. This is something I always repeat in my head. “
On the dark side:
“I remember when I was young, I just felt really violated, even on the beach.”. I might be 15 or 16 years old and people are taking pictures – photographers. I don’t think anyone really knows who I am. But I feel very violated, I do not like it, and do not understand it, it feels strange, because I am a young girl, they are adult men. I don’t like the feeling then, I’ll say the last season of my show, I’m about 18 years old, is when I feel like flip happens. I don’t like my art very much. I was in the fourth season of the show, and I felt I had gone beyond it. I want something different. Obviously, I fell in love with it for the first time. All these things have happened, and I don’t know what to do. “
Seek the support of people, you respect, not anyone:
“I asked the teacher, the coach, the manager, and I respect the people because of their way of life. I asked them, “How did you get to this place?” What do you like when you are 25 years old? What’s on your mind? And then from there, like-minded people. You’re surrounded by yourself – 100%. If the people around you think these things are stupid, and then think its ridiculous – “you’re crazy!”! You’re okay! But you don’t think so, then maybe it’s time to reconsider. It’s a lonely journey to really understand where all these things come from. And get out of it. It becomes an addiction, it becomes a habit to rethink, do not go to these negative places, when you are wrong, do wrong, when you wear something or represent a certain culture. But it was lonely, and I had to lose a lot of people to get there in my life. “
There is a small social circle that is worthy of trust and respect:
“You have to figure out the people in your circle.” I think I know everyone, but I don’t have friends. I have three good friends, I can tell everything, but I know everyone. I like to go anywhere, “Hey, guys, what’s up?”” It’s nice to get along with people, but boundaries are so important. You must have those who respect you, want to be the best for you, and you want the best of them. It sounds competent, but it’s hard.
Work on mental health, no matter what her reputation is:
I think I’ll have the same problem.” I think my extension is just a little bit of the public side, but I think they’re very similar. Coming to personal things – insecurity, growth, friendship, family, mental health, all of these things.
Fame in her Instagram:
I don’t even understand,” she said. I really don’t, I like this app, and that’s what happened. I think my voice is too loud. Maybe it’s too true, occasionally a little troublesome, but I think people like the truth that I represent – sometimes it’s bad. I don’t have a formula, I didn’t think about it. Maybe that’s why, because I don’t think about it.